Life Lesson No.2

Oh.. how I miss you guys! you can not believe. I wish I had all the time solely for you.

 I enjoy your company, you are my audience...I can feel you and see you with my Soul' eye. Please invite your friends and share my blog with others, you will be amazed - everything happens for a reason (this has been affirmed and confirmed many a times in my spiritual life). Don't ever miss an opportunity to share what feels good and right to you at any given moment.

Its all about sharing..

This may sound very cliche' but in reality your Attitude determines your Altitude. It doesn't matter how big or small the challenge is - the Magnitude is only a Latitude (guiding principle) and nothing more.

Do you still remember the "how far can you go" dance routine? I barely made it down to the floor and there were those who could touch the ground, up and down, ten more times. Anyway, i'm not a dancer - its no big deal, that's what I used to tell myself and my friends. That was my attitude to dancing.

How many times do you feel unaffected by a situation, or qualifying a certain loss or failure as nothing.

Losing her job as a Junior Accountant at a well established firm for Thuli was no big deal, she has had enough of the 'boss lady', her Manager, anyway. Soon enough she got another job, a better job and we all celebrated. Within three weeks she confessed that she didn't like the vibe at work, the environment was too constrained - no chit-chats in the office even during tea or lunch hours, its work-work all the way. A meeting with the boss behind a closed door meant 'double-trouble'.Three months was enough, she quit.

Well, after quitting and quitting, every other relationship included, she realized that she was getting nowhere slowly. She tells me, "you know what Nondi? it took me just one minute, one minute to change my game." She had to change her Attitude towards Life.

This is how you do it:

Understanding that:

1. God owes you nothing. Everything you need and everything you can be is with you. He gave you All and nothing less. You can only pray for His Divine Love, Guidance and  His Mercy and nothing else.
2. Your Mom and Dad owe you nothing, they have given you a Life. You are not dead, are you? Treasure it. Some parents have even gone the extra mile to give their children education, some cannot, but you live.
3. You are on your own. You are an individual, stop comparing yourself to other individuals. Unique is what you are.
4. ALL is Perfect. God's Creation is Perfect, everything is Balanced. The sun rises everyday, the moon and the stars. Sometimes its overcast, sometimes it rains - just to balance things out. This Winter may be freezing cold than last season and icier than 2013 but it is still Winter (it is not going to change for you) Go get the right gear for the season - a bathing suite in a cold weather won't do. Rise and Shine!
5. You reap what you sow. You sow a little, you reap a little. You sow nothing, you reap nothing. You sow more, you reap more (nice Balance hey).
6. You only live once (y.o.l.o). Do it now! Change your gears, can't you hear the irritable jarring sound - it says, Change meee..

A positive attitude is ALL you need!

Cheers..

Nondi